TWINS Babies?????????

Moody O

Having Twins. Need advice?????
My Girlfriend and I just found out today we are having twins. We are 16 years old. I know we shouldnât be having kids. But we are good parents our other 2 kids are happy and healthy. We are living with my parents. We have taken parenting classes. The one instructor comes to our house once and a while to see how we are doing. She canât believe how well we are doing. Our oldest child is 3 years old. She is a sweetie. We just had a baby 2 months and 26 days ago. I work full time she works part time. We both go to school but right now we have tutors coming to our house. So we can stay home.

I really want to be honest we had sex less then a week after we had our baby girl. I told my parents they are not really happy. My parents are supportive they love me my girl friend and there grandchildren. But they only finically support my girlfriend and I. We have to pay for our children. My parents help a little. That helps. To be honest being a father has made me a better person. I know that I made mistakes. At least I am taking care of my kids and girlfriend. I have insurance for my kids and my girlfriend and I feed them. They are treated right. My girl friend and I are married but the only people that know are our parents.

We are taking a brake from having a sex. I am nervous and I am happy about having another child. I love being a dad. I know I can afford another child. I donât waste money. I put my change everyday into my change jar. Every month my bank account is always positive. My GF puts her money she earns into the same account. We got a lot of money from her great grandpa and ma. That is in another account we have not touch that money yet.

My girlfriend loves being a mom. She is a good mom. She is a better mom then her mom. Her mom who abandon her, her sister, and brother at there grandparents. My GF is excited about having another baby. I am excited do. Our kids are healthy. We put our kids needs first. Please no rude comments I am taking care of my kids they are happy and healthy. To be honest we are happier now. We love being parents. Yes we are young. We are waiting a long time before we have sex again.

My questions are. Please donât be mean. I am nervous.

My girlfriend does not want to go to college any ideas on that? I respect her
decision. She wants to be a stay home mom.

Are we crazy for wanting to keep the babies?

How can someone get pageant again after just having a baby?

What is life like with twins?

Should I start preparing for the twins? What stuff should I get know.

Answer
I think you should keep the babies you'll do great!
Don't worry you'll both be fine being parents again its great to have kids. You'll be up most of the night but your probably used to that.
Nobody expects you to not make mistakes your human. Just wait a while to have more kids like when you are out of school. Tell your gf to think about going to school and tell her that she would be missing out on a chance in a lifetime.

Does dropping a baby result in crazy adults?

Q. sometimes people say "I think you were dropped too many times as a baby" if they think somebody is crazy/weird/dumb or has some other problem.

Does this belief have a basis in reality?

Answer
"Dropping a baby" can be 2 inches or 2 feet, on a pillow or on the sidewalk. It can cause brain malfunction if a baby is dropped on its head. If you had a brain injury, you'd know it by now - so I'd ignore these rude comments. You're not crazy/weird/dumb - you're unique! Also know that people who make comments like that often do so because they are intimidated and/or insecure.

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How likely is it to get pregnant after having a baby?

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Brooke

I've been having pregnancy symptoms, but it's hard to tell the difference between postpartum & pregnancy! I just had my daughter 4 months ago. If I am pregnant, the furthest along I can be is 13 weeks. My hubby & I haven't been using protection every time. For those of you that want to say "you're stupid you should of used condoms" I really wouldn't mind if I were pregnant again. Things may get a little crazy but I planned on having alot of children!

Anyways, I've never had a period yet since she was born. I've had morning sickness, headaches, mood swings, back pain, peeing alot, and fatigue. I'm not positive but I think I felt fetal movement this morning, but I could by psyching myself out. (you can feel at 12 weeks) It's hard to tell what could be pregnancy & what could be pp symptoms.. other than morning sickness & the missed period. I picked up a home pregnancy test at the drug store & it said negative. I waited a little longer & went to my doctors. He ordered blood work which said negative. Blood work is very accurate but I'm not even sure if I took it too early or not (I guess you have to wait 14 days after having unprotected sex.. I waited 12. I don't know if that would make a difference). He prescribed provera but I don't want to take it if there's a chance I am pregnant? Advice?

Answer
You have a higher likelihood if you're not breastfeeding. As the hormones released during nursing inhibit your ovulation. Sorta like natures birth control. But this is really only effective during the first six months. Once baby starts solids around six months,since you're nursing less often, you lose that safety net. And your chances for pregnancy start to go back up if not protected.

Since your blood test came back negative,I'd say it's pretty unlikely you're pregnant. Though can't rule out a lab error. It's rare,but possible.

If you're still feeling 'off' in another week. You can go on and take another test to be sure.

Why do so many girls get pregnant nowadays?

Levi's

Don't people learn from the rest of the worlds mistakes of accidental pregnancies. It makes me feel a little sorry for the kids who are brought into the world who don't have both parents to raise them right. Mom's are getting pretty tough now since half the time the fathers of the babies and up leaving after the first year or two. Yes guys are horny bastards and thats no excuse. But girls have to maybe say no sometimes or get birth control or something. Use every type of protection in the world, I mean seriously, there's tons of ther stuff out there. Sometimes the dads have to take the kid and the mom gets away. It takes two to make it happen so the blame is on both sides. But if you are not ready for the responsibility of raising a child, then please stopping bringing kids into the world, and please stop having kids when you're 14 years old. Kids raising kids, it's a crazy and sad world. Tell me what you think about the issue.

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I agree you should not be so judgmental , sometimes these young people are not told by there parents anything about sex and the consequences. If more parents would sit down and talk to there children about boys and how they`ll tell you anything you want to get you in bed maybe we would have less teen pregnancy, or maybe you should take all that extra energy and talk to the Young people about sex. I had my first son at 17 and now i`m married and 21 weeks pregnant with our fourth child. at 17 i thought i knew everything if someone would had sat me down and explain sex,relationship to me maybe i would had waiting later in life to have sex.

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