will a baby make the relationship last forever?

raegrey

knowing her only 9 months and she already has 2 kids with 2 different dads. not even sure i am in love with her but i married her and she is pregnant.. does a baby make me love her , or will it make things hard
married her for the baby and she didnt have insurance.

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A baby does not solve any problems. When she has the baby, you may realize that you do truly love her and it just took you seeing what a wonderful woman she is to have your baby. My husband had so much more respect to me after I had our children.

I really think that if you did not love her you would not have married her.

Just work on things and pray - ask God to help you thru this rough patch.


You did not have to get married just because you are having a baby. Yes I understand that it is the right thing to do, but there are other options.

I just don't want to sound preachy but you need to decide what is best for you, what is best for her and her kids and what is best for the baby.

Just think about it and don't make a rushed decision.

Baby makes weird breathing noises...is this normal...?

~KT~

I have a doctor appointment with my ped. tomorrow but was just wondering about this weird breathing sound my son is making... I know that it is not normal because my family members are used to being around babies a lot and they have never heard it before and are quite worried...He is 1 month old by the way and has done it ever sence i can remember, he does it on ly a few times a day, not all the time... The times he does it is when he is starting to get frustrated... when he starts flayling around... It is like a high pitched sound like what it sounds like when you are trying to take a deep breath but your airway is blocked... he does it over and over and starts to cry because it agrivates him... The ways you can make it go away is by picking him up and patting him on his back or by giving him his pacifier...(weird but it works by calming him down) It kind of sounds like he is congested pretty bad if you were to just hear him, but this isnt it because he has done it since birth and if you put your hand on his back it isnt congested... He has already been congested once for a few days, but this isnt that. I was wondering if this could also be the reason for him spitting up... It is kind of random, and usually when he is laying on his back... a few times a day it is alot, but other times it is hardly anything... He willb e laying on his back and i will see a stream of spit up come flowing out of his mouth randomly... but only a few times a day... Its hard to describe how much spit up it is but sometimes is about the size of my hand... I wanted to know if this is normal also... Please help, any advice is welcome! thanks, Katie

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babies CAN make wheezing weird noises when they are that young that have nothing to do with congestion or breathing problems. my daughter still makes strange noises when breathing and shes 5 months old. it has to do with the muscles and the structures in the airway... they aren't developed enough or strong yet, so when they breath, it rattles a little and makes what sounds like congestion and wheezing. thats not to say that there might not be something wrong with your baby, may be that he's sick too. all i mean is that it also can be perfectly fine. ignore the totally rude answers you may get from people, because for some reason harassment like this is tolerated on this website sometimes, but i'm sure for mentioning other answers i'll get reported. if you are truly concerned then waiting until tomorrow isn't a great idea, but there is most likely nothing to be overly concerned about at this point. babies sometimes spit up, sometimes it seems like a lot but liquid always looks like a lot more than it really is. take a teaspoon of liquid and throw it on the counter and you'll be able to see how much more it looks like. thats also a good way to judge how much you baby spits up. the spitting up and the sounds might not be related at all.

i'm just telling you some things for you to keep in mind. always worry about your baby, err on the side of concern. but what you're saying isn't always a catastrophe and in fact can be completely normal. if your baby isn't feverish, is eating somewhat normal, is pooping and peeing correctly, and isn't otherwise sick or in pain, then chances are, things are okay. at the doctor make sure to severely express your concern, and i'm sure they will take a lot of time to check out everything you are worried about. good luck with your baby

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