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I'm 17 turning 18 in a month and I'm pregnant how do I tell my parents!!!?? Plz helpp!! Their going thru a hard tkme in their marriage too.. a baby will devastate them
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Honestly, telling them youre pregnant may bring them a little closer together. Being a mother myself, my husband and I always joke about our daughter coming to us one day telling us shes pregnant and stuff... I think if our marriage were going through a hard time, and our daughter came to use saying she was pregnant, it would give me and my husband flash backs to the good ol days where we would joke around about stuff like this, and then be like.. wow.. its really happening... idk THATS JUST ME. When I told my mom I was pregnant, all she said was "are you sure how do you know?" and I said "well I took 2 tests and both say positive" and I handed her the tests.. and she said "well... f*ck.. I guess were going to have a baby, BUT YOURE FINISHING YOUR SENIOR YEAR!" lol.. She was kind of mad at first, but she got over it and loves my daughter more than anything and she actually tells me all of the time how proud she is of me and how happy she is I have my daughter and stuff. NEVER imagined my mom being this way as she was a VERY VERY strict mother growing up. I was horrified to have to tell her I was pregnant.. But all teen moms thinks their parents will kill them.. but when its actually happening to you.. its no where near as bad as you think. After I showed my mom the first ultrasound, she immediately fell in love with ht baby and ALWAYS asked me how I was doing or if I needed anything, and she would always rub lotion on my belly for me and stuff :) She even through me a surprise baby shower! & this is all coming from the woman who used to ground me for 2 weeks for every "B" I got on a report card, and ground me for a MONTH for every "C" I got. Very very strict mommy. & my dad and mom were divorced before I got pregnant and HATED each other, but ever since I first got pregnant, they have been talking more. I dont think their getting back together any time soon lol But its nice to see them getting a long for a change :)
Honestly, telling them youre pregnant may bring them a little closer together. Being a mother myself, my husband and I always joke about our daughter coming to us one day telling us shes pregnant and stuff... I think if our marriage were going through a hard time, and our daughter came to use saying she was pregnant, it would give me and my husband flash backs to the good ol days where we would joke around about stuff like this, and then be like.. wow.. its really happening... idk THATS JUST ME. When I told my mom I was pregnant, all she said was "are you sure how do you know?" and I said "well I took 2 tests and both say positive" and I handed her the tests.. and she said "well... f*ck.. I guess were going to have a baby, BUT YOURE FINISHING YOUR SENIOR YEAR!" lol.. She was kind of mad at first, but she got over it and loves my daughter more than anything and she actually tells me all of the time how proud she is of me and how happy she is I have my daughter and stuff. NEVER imagined my mom being this way as she was a VERY VERY strict mother growing up. I was horrified to have to tell her I was pregnant.. But all teen moms thinks their parents will kill them.. but when its actually happening to you.. its no where near as bad as you think. After I showed my mom the first ultrasound, she immediately fell in love with ht baby and ALWAYS asked me how I was doing or if I needed anything, and she would always rub lotion on my belly for me and stuff :) She even through me a surprise baby shower! & this is all coming from the woman who used to ground me for 2 weeks for every "B" I got on a report card, and ground me for a MONTH for every "C" I got. Very very strict mommy. & my dad and mom were divorced before I got pregnant and HATED each other, but ever since I first got pregnant, they have been talking more. I dont think their getting back together any time soon lol But its nice to see them getting a long for a change :)
pregnant at 17, and needing some advice.?
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i just found out i am pregnant. i took 4 HPT's and all positive. i know im keeping the baby, because of personal reasons. my boyfriend is 16, (17 in may) and i will be 18 in july. the baby would be due around my birthday. i missed my period on november 8th, so i assume its been around 4 or 5 weeks. im going to planned parenthood on wed, to get another test and some info. ive only been with my boyfriend for 5 months, which is scary. he says he wont leave, but he doesnt think he can raise a kid, but doesnt want to abandon me. hes losing it. but he still loves me and cares just the same. i dont have a job yet, but im doing my G.E.D and possibly getting a good job at my local hospital. i live with my grandma because my parents and i dont get along at all. my stepdad is 32 and my mom 36. so they were young. im not sure how they would take it... thats the info.
i was wondering...
1) how to tell my parents. and my grandma most importantly. (shes supporting me with her social security and retirement, shes 57. and its tough for us. im not sure how id ever tell her)
2) can i keep my doctor visit private for awhile even if im on my parents insurance?
3) how to prepare being 17, what i can do now to get ready and such.
4) any other wise info.
thanks, and please no hurtful comments, i just want advice.
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Im 17 and pregnant to beleive me i know what your going threw.
1. the hardest thing i had to do was to tell mymom i was pregnant, there is no easy way to do it you just need to tell them. cause the longer you wait your just hurting yourself and your baby. prenatal care is very important especially since the age.
--you most likel wont be able to get a job because your pregnant and your gunna need time off. check out getting social security for yourself or welfare.
2.you can keep your doctors visits private but there very expensive. but if you want to keep it private just tell them you dont have insurance, my advice just tell them you need to find an OB that will deliver.
3.all you can do right now is wait and prepare yourself mentally, im 35wks and its just now hitting me. its a 9 month process you will adjust (i don't know how else to put it) of course what your going to need to do is apply the baby for medicade cause insurance for the baby is mucho important. apply for wic and TANF there welfaare programs that will help, one issue i ran into is when applying for these programs there going to want to prosue the dad for child support (if he isnt living with you) they wont start the process untill a year after the birth and if he isnt living with you all the cost that the gov. is paying for will go back to him. what i'm doing is haaving my mom take temp gardianship of my baby so she will be covered under her insurance and once either me or my bf have a steady job with insurance we will take full custody back.
4. good luck! its gunna be scary but its one of the most amazing things ever! what you really need is support from your familybecause it wont be easy, your family will be the most important thing to you. your not going to have a lot of friends to hang out with because your gunna get to the point were you can't go out and have fun with them, you'll be to tired or in pain. you will find out who your true friends are trough this process. and remember your man is younger then you ( pluss boys mature 3 years slower) so prepare yourself for the worst im not saying to expect it but its common for guys to bail when there teens. and If he sticks around and helps out then keep him around he's a good guy. try not to let your temper (it comes with the hormones) scare people away, i learned to just keep your mouth shut. :) again good luck :)
Im 17 and pregnant to beleive me i know what your going threw.
1. the hardest thing i had to do was to tell mymom i was pregnant, there is no easy way to do it you just need to tell them. cause the longer you wait your just hurting yourself and your baby. prenatal care is very important especially since the age.
--you most likel wont be able to get a job because your pregnant and your gunna need time off. check out getting social security for yourself or welfare.
2.you can keep your doctors visits private but there very expensive. but if you want to keep it private just tell them you dont have insurance, my advice just tell them you need to find an OB that will deliver.
3.all you can do right now is wait and prepare yourself mentally, im 35wks and its just now hitting me. its a 9 month process you will adjust (i don't know how else to put it) of course what your going to need to do is apply the baby for medicade cause insurance for the baby is mucho important. apply for wic and TANF there welfaare programs that will help, one issue i ran into is when applying for these programs there going to want to prosue the dad for child support (if he isnt living with you) they wont start the process untill a year after the birth and if he isnt living with you all the cost that the gov. is paying for will go back to him. what i'm doing is haaving my mom take temp gardianship of my baby so she will be covered under her insurance and once either me or my bf have a steady job with insurance we will take full custody back.
4. good luck! its gunna be scary but its one of the most amazing things ever! what you really need is support from your familybecause it wont be easy, your family will be the most important thing to you. your not going to have a lot of friends to hang out with because your gunna get to the point were you can't go out and have fun with them, you'll be to tired or in pain. you will find out who your true friends are trough this process. and remember your man is younger then you ( pluss boys mature 3 years slower) so prepare yourself for the worst im not saying to expect it but its common for guys to bail when there teens. and If he sticks around and helps out then keep him around he's a good guy. try not to let your temper (it comes with the hormones) scare people away, i learned to just keep your mouth shut. :) again good luck :)
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