Sarah
i've read everything its not like i'm going into this blind but everytime it doesn't work its just devistating. what are some extra things i can do
please no dumb or mean answers this is hard for me
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I had the same problem. I was trying for a kids for like 3 years straight and so I decided to get myself investigated to see whether or not i could have children and if there was something wrong with me?
On September 1 I had an ultrasound to look for anything harmful and on the 3rd of that same month they found 27 cysts on my ovaries and my doctor then told me that I couldn't have kids and I would need to have IVF done, blah blah. and i'm only 20!
I told myself in August to stop trying, to stop wanting, and to just think about life for once and not think about falling pregnant and because I was in the right frame of my mind and my body was ready, I finally got pregnant. *I was already pregnant at the time the doctor said I couldn't have kids too!
I think give yourself at least three months of not trying and just doing your normal life and say to yourself that your not ready for a kid yet, cos I did that too and then boom!
anywy. I wish you all the best of luck, also talk to the doctor about how long you've been trying blah, blah, because if it's over 2 years it could mean that there may be a problem or something..
Best of luck..
EDIT: If you have depression this may be causing the stress on your body. Try to relax, smile and love your life not hate it, cos if you want to have a baby then you need to be strong no matter how sad or bad you may feel
I had the same problem. I was trying for a kids for like 3 years straight and so I decided to get myself investigated to see whether or not i could have children and if there was something wrong with me?
On September 1 I had an ultrasound to look for anything harmful and on the 3rd of that same month they found 27 cysts on my ovaries and my doctor then told me that I couldn't have kids and I would need to have IVF done, blah blah. and i'm only 20!
I told myself in August to stop trying, to stop wanting, and to just think about life for once and not think about falling pregnant and because I was in the right frame of my mind and my body was ready, I finally got pregnant. *I was already pregnant at the time the doctor said I couldn't have kids too!
I think give yourself at least three months of not trying and just doing your normal life and say to yourself that your not ready for a kid yet, cos I did that too and then boom!
anywy. I wish you all the best of luck, also talk to the doctor about how long you've been trying blah, blah, because if it's over 2 years it could mean that there may be a problem or something..
Best of luck..
EDIT: If you have depression this may be causing the stress on your body. Try to relax, smile and love your life not hate it, cos if you want to have a baby then you need to be strong no matter how sad or bad you may feel
Tips for getting pregnant?
Q. This is my 4th month of trying. I got my period yesterday-- 3 days late. Of course, my husband and I both assumed I was pregnant =(
1.) Will my next period be 28 days from when this one actually came? Or 28 days from when it was due (last sunday).
2.) Anything we can do/use/take that will boost our odds?
... we've been "having sex just to enjoy it" (not for procreation) for the past 2 months. I've been trying to stay relaxed about it. It's not working. I asked if there is anything we can do to help. Thanks.
I do have a 228 day cycle. This was the only time in my life that it was late.
* I do have a 28 day cycle. this is the only time in my life it's been late.
1.) Will my next period be 28 days from when this one actually came? Or 28 days from when it was due (last sunday).
2.) Anything we can do/use/take that will boost our odds?
... we've been "having sex just to enjoy it" (not for procreation) for the past 2 months. I've been trying to stay relaxed about it. It's not working. I asked if there is anything we can do to help. Thanks.
I do have a 228 day cycle. This was the only time in my life that it was late.
* I do have a 28 day cycle. this is the only time in my life it's been late.
Answer
I know exactly how you feel, not knowing if and when it will happen. Have you gone to a fertility doctor? I know they usually do not see you until you have been trying for a year. We tried for a year, then I saw a fertility doctor, she put me on meds and shots, and after 4 months of that I was pregnant. (25 weeks and expecting a baby girl! It will happen for you too!) Anyway, something that is VERY helpful whether or not you are seeing a fertility specialist is charting your basal body temperature in the morning before you wake up. There is a book called Taking Charge of your Fertility by Toni Weschler, and trust me it is well worth your money. It explains exactly how to chart your temperatures, and other tips on how to boost your fertility. Good luck, I hope you are blessed soon!
I know exactly how you feel, not knowing if and when it will happen. Have you gone to a fertility doctor? I know they usually do not see you until you have been trying for a year. We tried for a year, then I saw a fertility doctor, she put me on meds and shots, and after 4 months of that I was pregnant. (25 weeks and expecting a baby girl! It will happen for you too!) Anyway, something that is VERY helpful whether or not you are seeing a fertility specialist is charting your basal body temperature in the morning before you wake up. There is a book called Taking Charge of your Fertility by Toni Weschler, and trust me it is well worth your money. It explains exactly how to chart your temperatures, and other tips on how to boost your fertility. Good luck, I hope you are blessed soon!
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