Just had my 2nd miscarraige this year, should we try again? PLEASE READ AND HELP ME!!!!!!!?

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Brittany

I know this is finally the decision of me and my husband but I need some outside opinions. I found out I was pregnant Oct 14th and started bleeding the 28th of Oct. I was 6 weeks along. I went into the doc on the 29th and was still bleeding, my doc did an ultrasound and saw that the baby and pregnancy sack were still there but the pregnancy sack was not healthy and my uterus was sooo full of blood and golf ball sized blood clots that he told me that if he didn't do a D&C and I went home I would hemorrhage (bleed) to death. SO I had to do it.
So now my question is should I start trying again in the next few months? What could have caused this?
Three things happened the day before I started to bleed (the 27th)
1. I woke up with horrible uncomfortableness in my tummy and back (I get it every once in a while) and my stomach was swollen, it felt like I had to go poop very bad but couldn't just like every other time this happened, and it felt like my bowel were swollen. (my fam doc said a few months back he thought that I may have Irritable bowel syndrome, but at the time we were handling something else and never found out.
2. I fell backwards onto my coffee table but only landed on my butt
3. I had a minor asthma attack.
Could any of these start that bleeding and cause this??
PLEASE HELP ME I KNOW IT WAS LONG BUT I NEED HELP!!
my other miscarriage was at 8 weeks along in FEB so we gave our selves a long time to heal before getting pregnant again.

Answer
They say a miscarriage happens from an abnormality with the fetus. Its not your fault. I am sorry for your loss and will pray for you. I think maybe you should get some blood test done and rule out any type of disorders or any genetic situation btwn you and your husband maybe there is something with the compatibility btwn y'all to. Or if just could of been an abnormal sperm. Definitely talk to a counselor and look into a specialist for some testing to be done and look into your bowel syndrome. Good luck and it will work out. Our lord will bless you. :)
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Weird Vaginal discharge? Advice please!?

Domi

So about 1-2 years ago I became pregnant, I had a miscarriage and since the baby didn't come out naturally i had to have a D&C.. Ever since I was pregnant I had this problem with excessive discharge it didn't happen right about until January(the discharge) of this year.. I had my D&C several months before that. Since January to this day every month i discharge so much, even during intercourse.. I know it's not right because I've never had this experience until after my pregnancy. I've noticed every time I ovulate that's when it starts bad now i know us ladies discharge around that time but I don't think its normal for how much i discharge, i don't discharge at all until the day i ovulate, and the discharge lasts until a couple days before my period. It's the same repeat every month. It's frustrating because my husband doesn't want to touch me for those two weeks of ridiculous discharge. because every time we have intercourse during the time frame of my discharge extensiveness it gets all over him.. white milky discharge no smell no itch nothing .. I went to the gyno i had no infection but she said my pH is off balance so i started so much remedies with baking soda, salt baths etc etc.. they didn't help that much. Then I found two pills i take everyday called accidophulous and these BV capsules i bought at walmart. They helped quiet a little bit maybe knocked some days of discharge off. So when it started to help I stopped taking them and it started all over again.. I don't want to be on pills for ever. I just want this over with ladies or whoever please help.. remedies/ medicine, advice anything.. I just want to feel normal again and not suffer, and be back to normal discharge!!

Answer
You could possibly have an infection in your vagina. It would be best to get it checked by your doctor and go on antibiotics if you end up having an infection after all. By the way keep in mind antibiotics decrease effectiveness of any birth control until you get off of the antibiotics so be cautious.

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