babyDee
my partner and i have been doing it for more than 3 years now...we are not using any contraceptives except the calendar method.now that we had decided to have a baby, we just cant make one.we are getting frustrated each month, everytime my period comes. can you help me please? why do you think it is hard for us now to have a baby now that we want it? can you suggest some vitamins that might help us? my shortest cycle is 26days and my longest is 31. thanks.
Answer
How to get Pregnant Faster â Top Ten Tips
1. Have sex three times a week.
Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.
2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.
Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and donât require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.
3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).
Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Donât wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partnerâs sperm will last longer than your egg and you donât want to miss an opportunity by waiting.
4. Donât rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.
A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.
5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.
Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.
6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.
7. Donât smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.
8. Have enjoyable sex.
Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the manâs sperm count.
9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.
The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Donât get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.
10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.
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How to get Pregnant Faster â Top Ten Tips
1. Have sex three times a week.
Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.
2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.
Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and donât require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.
3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).
Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Donât wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partnerâs sperm will last longer than your egg and you donât want to miss an opportunity by waiting.
4. Donât rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.
A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.
5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.
Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.
6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.
7. Donât smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.
8. Have enjoyable sex.
Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the manâs sperm count.
9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.
The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Donât get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.
10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.
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Tips to help get pregnant.?
Caroline
Please no obvious or sarcastic answers, as I know how it happens. My question is; does any have any tips for me that will help my chances of convincing?
My husband has finally told me that I can stop taking the birth control and we can try for a baby finally! (YAHOO!) And I am crazy excited about that, and I am definitely ready to start trying now. I have stopped taking my birth control, and started taking folic acid. I was wondering if there were any other neat little tips or trick that could help us out. :) Thanks!
Answer
Start taking folic acid. Folic acid is very healthy for an unborn child. Taking it before conceiving can get things better prepared in there for your baby and will start giving your child the nutrients it needs as soon as it needs them. Proper care of your body and eating the right foods will ensure a healthy baby.
2
Do not get up right away after you have sex. Lay there for 15 to 20 minutes. Some women have had success by putting their legs up in the air or laying a pillow under their pelvic area during intercourse to elevate the vagina which helps the sperm make its way to the egg easier and faster.
3
Have intercourse during ovulation. Ovulation usually occurs 14 days before the day of your expected period. You can buy over the counter ovulation kits to test yourself with. Also, if you check your temperature everyday for a month, your temperature is said to rise on the day or days of your ovulation.
4
Cut back or cut out bad habits. Caffiene restricts blood flow to the uterus. So if you drink alot of caffiene, it is time to cut back. Studies have even shown that in some cases women who consumed large amounts of caffiene during conception and the first trimester suffered from miscarriage due to too much caffiene. Caffiene moves over the placenta when in your body and it can affect the fetus. Decaf is okay. Alcohol and smoking cigarettes is also known to cause problems. If you get pregnant you do not want to be doing those things anyways because they will harm your child in ways that you would never think could happen.
5
Keep your vagina sperm friendly! Don't use douche, don't have any saliva in there or around there before he ejaculates because yes, saliva is said to kill sperm. Vaginal sprays and scented tampons can also leave particles behind that can kill sperm.
6
If you get off before he does the fluid inside of your vagina can clog the area up and make it harder for the sperm to break through. You will want as little of your own body fluids in the area as possible. In the old days many women claimed to drink cough medicine in order to aid in pregnancy. This may sound silly but still to this day some women drink a couple tablespoons of Robitussin before sexual intercourse. The Robitussin thins the female discharge naturally down there and allows the sperm to move more easily and quickly. While some people say that having an orgasm aids in pregnancy, this is a myth.
7
Have sex right before or during ovulation not after. Your egg only lasts for 24 hours. Sperm on the other hand can live up to 3 or 4 days in your body. However, it is more likely to have a boy if you have sex during ovulation as the male sperm gets the egg faster but dies quicker. Therefore, having sex a day before ovulation or so, will have a higher chance of a female because the female sperm are slower getting to the egg but they live longer.
8
Do not have sex with the woman on top. We all learned about gravity in middle school and it is no different in this situation. It is possible to get pregnant being on top but it is alot less likely then if you are on the bottom in missionary style, which is the best way.
9
Stop thinking that you are pregnant all the time. This will make you depressed and stressed out. Stress and depression can always cause physical problems. Take it easy. Relax. Rest. Be happy. It will happen one day just not today but that is okay.
10
Eat fertile foods. Beans, nuts, garlic, lean meats, fruits, vegetables, whole grains, cauliflower, eggs with the yolk, honey, avocado, oysters, and plenty of water. If you do not drink enough water your cervical fluid moves slower and slows down the process of the sperm finding the egg. This could cause the sperm to die before it meets the egg. Have the Dad eat oily fish such as sardines or salmon as it is said to enhance sperm mobility and the overall quality as well. If your man doesn't want to eat fish then he can take a flaxseed oil supplement.
Make sure you keep notes of your periods on a calendar so you don't get dates mixed up.
Start taking folic acid. Folic acid is very healthy for an unborn child. Taking it before conceiving can get things better prepared in there for your baby and will start giving your child the nutrients it needs as soon as it needs them. Proper care of your body and eating the right foods will ensure a healthy baby.
2
Do not get up right away after you have sex. Lay there for 15 to 20 minutes. Some women have had success by putting their legs up in the air or laying a pillow under their pelvic area during intercourse to elevate the vagina which helps the sperm make its way to the egg easier and faster.
3
Have intercourse during ovulation. Ovulation usually occurs 14 days before the day of your expected period. You can buy over the counter ovulation kits to test yourself with. Also, if you check your temperature everyday for a month, your temperature is said to rise on the day or days of your ovulation.
4
Cut back or cut out bad habits. Caffiene restricts blood flow to the uterus. So if you drink alot of caffiene, it is time to cut back. Studies have even shown that in some cases women who consumed large amounts of caffiene during conception and the first trimester suffered from miscarriage due to too much caffiene. Caffiene moves over the placenta when in your body and it can affect the fetus. Decaf is okay. Alcohol and smoking cigarettes is also known to cause problems. If you get pregnant you do not want to be doing those things anyways because they will harm your child in ways that you would never think could happen.
5
Keep your vagina sperm friendly! Don't use douche, don't have any saliva in there or around there before he ejaculates because yes, saliva is said to kill sperm. Vaginal sprays and scented tampons can also leave particles behind that can kill sperm.
6
If you get off before he does the fluid inside of your vagina can clog the area up and make it harder for the sperm to break through. You will want as little of your own body fluids in the area as possible. In the old days many women claimed to drink cough medicine in order to aid in pregnancy. This may sound silly but still to this day some women drink a couple tablespoons of Robitussin before sexual intercourse. The Robitussin thins the female discharge naturally down there and allows the sperm to move more easily and quickly. While some people say that having an orgasm aids in pregnancy, this is a myth.
7
Have sex right before or during ovulation not after. Your egg only lasts for 24 hours. Sperm on the other hand can live up to 3 or 4 days in your body. However, it is more likely to have a boy if you have sex during ovulation as the male sperm gets the egg faster but dies quicker. Therefore, having sex a day before ovulation or so, will have a higher chance of a female because the female sperm are slower getting to the egg but they live longer.
8
Do not have sex with the woman on top. We all learned about gravity in middle school and it is no different in this situation. It is possible to get pregnant being on top but it is alot less likely then if you are on the bottom in missionary style, which is the best way.
9
Stop thinking that you are pregnant all the time. This will make you depressed and stressed out. Stress and depression can always cause physical problems. Take it easy. Relax. Rest. Be happy. It will happen one day just not today but that is okay.
10
Eat fertile foods. Beans, nuts, garlic, lean meats, fruits, vegetables, whole grains, cauliflower, eggs with the yolk, honey, avocado, oysters, and plenty of water. If you do not drink enough water your cervical fluid moves slower and slows down the process of the sperm finding the egg. This could cause the sperm to die before it meets the egg. Have the Dad eat oily fish such as sardines or salmon as it is said to enhance sperm mobility and the overall quality as well. If your man doesn't want to eat fish then he can take a flaxseed oil supplement.
Make sure you keep notes of your periods on a calendar so you don't get dates mixed up.
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