Monday, December 2, 2013

What did you do or are you planning on doing for your husbands first fathers day?

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Our son is almost 4 months old and has the best dad a baby could ask for. What did you do (or are going to do) to celebrate your baby's daddy on his special day?


Answer
Oh you guys have Fathers Day this weekend eh? Here in New Zealand it's not until September so I haven't really thought about it yet, but I want it to be really special! I'll get Chelsea to "sign" his card hehe, like he got her to do for my Mothers Day card :) (ie hold the pen in her hand and write her name!) and make him pancakes for breakfast too. Not sure about the gift yet though, will start putting some thought into it!
Have you decided what you're gonna do yet?

Is circumsition on a baby the same procedure as a circumsition on a 12 yr old boy?

Q. Can the boy get the same procedure the baby got?


Answer
Yes it's similar. Except on a baby they mostly don't use anesthetic and because the foreskin is naturally attached to the head (glans) with no cavity, they have to rip it away with forceps before they can cut it off.
Although it is possible to get it don at twelve, why on God's earth would you want to? I am circumcised and I envy you having all your penis to play with.
Adult males lose 15 square inches (40 square centimetres) of skin in circumcision, over half the skin of your penis. You lose the gliding action as it slides on itself during masturbation and sex. You will suffer bruising, perhaps some bleeding, and the swelling from the disruption to the lymph system goes on for up to six months. Removing the foreskin turns the surface of the glans from an inner mucosal membrane to outside skin. Newly circumcised adults usually go through some weeks of intense discomfort as the glans is constantly exposed to rubbing on clothing, until it develops a thicker keratin layer and becomes less sensitive. You must abstain from ALL sexual activity for an average of six weeks. Some men like the final result but others complain of loss of sensation and miss being able to slide their foreskin over the glans. Circumcised guys often have little or no movable skin left and are forced to masturbate using lube or rubbing dry, without the loose skin. There is no going back if you donât like the result.
A recent study has shown real differences in fine touch sensitivity between circumcised and intact penises and that the most sensitive parts of the intact penis are those that would be removed by circumcision.
The claimed benefits of circumcision are a beat up (based on flawed studies) and don't really exist but medical authorities have worked out that the overall complication rate is higher than all the benefits claimed by the pro-cutting advocates. One by one the claims are disproved but the pro-cutting zealots come up with more and keep quoting the old ones despite the evidence against them. For example you have more chance of dying from a circumcision or losing your penis from wound infection than from penile cancer. The rate of penile cancer is higher in the largely-circumcised USA than in European countries where less than 1% of the male population is circumcised. Plus circumcised men have been found to have penile cancer, mostly on the scar. (Remember this is a very rare disease in intact or circumcised men).
A very recent study in New Zealand followed a cohort of boys through life from birth to age 32. About 40% were circumcised. The intact males had a slightly lower rate of sexually transmitted infections than the circumcised but there was no significant difference.
Using surgery to mutilate the genitals instead of washing in a modern western society makes no sense. Normal intact male genitals are, if anything, easier to wash than female ones and the same substance, smegma collects in the genital folds of both sexes. A few intact males have problems with tight foreskin but this is only a tiny proportion of intact males. The condition can now be almost always treated with simple stretching exercises, sometimes in combination with a steroid cream that speeds up the process. Here's a link to my stretching instructions in case you need them
http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=178155
but at 12 you may just grow into normal separation and retraction. This happens commonly at puberty for some boys.
Many women who get to interact sexually with an intact penis prefer the natural state. Donât do this to yourself just to fit in. Be proud of your whole and natural body.
Geoff




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